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WeddingPath News 2nd March 2007 511 views

Your first dance

Some couples love the idea of cutting up the rug in front of all their guests; others are terrified at the thought. There has been a fab forum thread recently with some of our members' choices of a first-dance song.

Most couples choose a song that is special to them, perhaps a song they listened to when they first met or a romantic song that reflects their feelings for each other. Other choices could be a song that fits with the theme of your wedding, or one that reminds you of a special time.

One important thing to remember is listen (or read) the lyrics to the song you think you are going to choose, because sometimes they are not quite as appropriate as you first think. For example, people have been known to choose 'Every Breath You Take' by The Police - allegedly about a stalker - or 'Perfect Day' by Lou Reed - about his heroin habit, and not really an appropriate choice for a first dance.

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If you are having a DJ play your first dance then make sure he/she has the song in their collection. Don't assume they will have the song you want - it needs to be discussed (as does the rest of the evening's play list) with your DJ well in advance.

If you are having a band play at your reception, there are a couple of important points to consider. First, do the band know the song you want, or are they willing to learn it? Again, don't assume anything: even if the song is on their set list you need to double-check that they are up to speed with the track. Does the line-up of the band work for the song you have chosen? If you are having a jazz quartet, they may not be able to play Aerosmith's 'Don't Wanna Miss A Thing' for example.

If you are having a classical group then the musicians will usually be able to sight-read most pieces of music. However, you should discuss your requirements in advance as even good sight-readers will sound better if they are familiar with and have rehearsed the song.

If you or your partner are not comfortable with your dancing skills then dance lessons are always an option. Many dance teachers do special lessons for couples getting married - search online to find someone suitable. Another really fun option is to have a dance teacher or two come to your wedding and give everyone lessons. You can start the evening with a group lesson and, when you are warmed up and the ice is broken, clear the floor and embark on your first dance.

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Here are a few popular first dance-songs as suggestions. Remember, listen to the lyrics and make sure they are appropriate for you.

Sonny & Cher - I Got You Babe

Stevie Wonder - You Are The Sunshine Of My Life

Robbie Williams - Angels

Frank Sinatra - I Get A Kick Out Of You

Harry Connick Jr - It Had To Be You

Bryan Adams
- Everything I Do (I Do It For You)

Madness
- It Must Be Love

Lonestar - Amazed

Van Morrison
- Have I Told You Lately

Sade - Your Love Is King

Beatles - Something

James Blunt - You're Beautiful

(from the movie) Casablanca - As Time Goes By

Savage Garden - Truly Madly Deeply

Elvis Presley - Can't Help Falling in Love

Take That - How Deep Is Your Love

Whitney Houston - I Will Always Love You

I hope these give you some ideas! Have a fab week.

Love and apples!!!

Margo the monkey xxx
Margo paw print

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